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Overcoming Social Anxiety and Shyness — Step by Step

Shyness and social anxiety can range from mild to extremely debilitating. They can stop people from developing friendships, working, and even going anywhere in public. Many well-known figures have experienced social anxiety — including Abraham Lincoln, Albert Einstein, Eleanor Roosevelt, Theodore Roosevelt, Thomas Jefferson, Harrison Ford, Brad Pitt, Michelle Pfeiffer, David Bowie, David Letterman, Nicole Kidman, and Jim Carrey. The more you learn and understand it, the more you can feel in control.

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Building a Question List for When Your Mind Goes BlankEvery socially anxious person knows the feeling. The conversation is rolling along, someone asks you something, and suddenly your thoughts scatter like…
How to approach a stranger at a workshop or class in AustraliaPicture this: you've signed up for a weekend photography workshop at a community centre in Fitzroy, or a Saturday language class at TAFE in Brisbane, and now…
Why silent moments in group chats make you feel more anxiousGroup chats are meant to feel easy. You tap out a message, chuck in an emoji or two, and the conversation keeps rolling along without you having to hold…
How to Stop Comparing Your Social Life to Others’ Highlight ReelsA quiet weekend can feel much bigger when your phone is full of photos from packed dinners, beach trips and birthday gatherings. You may start measuring your…
Using Positive Self-Talk to Navigate Tough Social EncountersSocial anxiety shows up in subtle ways for many Australians, from bracing yourself before a Perth office meeting to dreading small talk at a Brisbane South…
How to Handle the Urge to Cancel Plans at the Last MinuteThat flutter of dread when you remember the dinner you agreed to, the knot in your stomach, the voice rehearsing a believable excuse. The urge to cancel plans…
When you feel like an outsider in a familiar groupWalking into a room where everyone seems to know each other can trigger a knot in your stomach that is hard to explain. Even when the faces are familiar, the…
How to develop a hobby that builds social confidence graduallyMost people with social anxiety already know that forcing themselves into noisy parties does not work. A hobby-first approach feels different because the focus…
Why You Might Fear Receiving Gifts in Front of OthersThe crowd has gone quiet. Someone hands you a brightly wrapped parcel and the room seems to be waiting for your reaction. Your cheeks warm, your hands fumble…
Learning to Accept Imperfect Moments in Everyday ConversationEvery conversation carries a small risk of awkwardness, and that is precisely what makes human interaction feel alive. Yet people who struggle with social…

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