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Overcoming Social Anxiety and Shyness — Step by Step

Shyness and social anxiety can range from mild to extremely debilitating. They can stop people from developing friendships, working, and even going anywhere in public. Many well-known figures have experienced social anxiety — including Abraham Lincoln, Albert Einstein, Eleanor Roosevelt, Theodore Roosevelt, Thomas Jefferson, Harrison Ford, Brad Pitt, Michelle Pfeiffer, David Bowie, David Letterman, Nicole Kidman, and Jim Carrey. The more you learn and understand it, the more you can feel in control.

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Feeling Less Exposed When Sharing the Hobbies You LoveA hobby can be a source of pleasure, identity and connection, yet it may also feel strangely risky when other people can see it. You might worry that friends…
How to Practise Active Listening When Speaking Feels Nerve-RackingWhen social anxiety makes speaking feel risky, listening can become a quiet way to stay involved. You do not have to fill every pause, deliver a clever…
Why Eating Around Colleagues Can Feel So AnxiousSharing lunch with colleagues can seem like a small, ordinary part of working life. Yet for someone with social anxiety or strong shyness, opening a container,…
Setting realistic social goals for an introverted personalityAn introverted personality is not a problem to fix. It usually means social energy is limited, quiet settings feel more comfortable, and meaningful one-to-one…
What to do when you freeze during a conversation and lose your wordsFreezing in conversation can feel intensely embarrassing. A question arrives, your mind suddenly goes blank, and even familiar words seem out of reach. You may…
How to use a pre-event check-in to calm your social jittersA social event can create anxiety hours before anything has happened. You may picture awkward silences, worry that people will judge you, or feel tempted to…
Why Over-Apologising Happens in Social Settings and How to StopThree quick apologies before you've even finished your sentence. A reflexive "sorry" when someone bumps into you in a busy Melbourne café. Feeling the urge to…
Preparing for a Networking Event Without Feeling OverwhelmedNetworking events often sit at the top of the dreaded list for people who experience social anxiety. The combination of unfamiliar faces, small talk, and the…
When everyone else seems more confident than you: a path forwardSitting in a busy Melbourne café, watching groups of friends laugh as if they have never felt awkward, it is easy to believe you are the only person in the…
How to Soften the Inner Voice in Social MomentsEvery person who has ever walked into a crowded pub in Fitzroy or sat down for their first day at a new job in Parramatta knows the voice. It pipes up just as…

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