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Overcoming Social Anxiety and Shyness — Step by Step

Shyness and social anxiety can range from mild to extremely debilitating. They can stop people from developing friendships, working, and even going anywhere in public. Many well-known figures have experienced social anxiety — including Abraham Lincoln, Albert Einstein, Eleanor Roosevelt, Theodore Roosevelt, Thomas Jefferson, Harrison Ford, Brad Pitt, Michelle Pfeiffer, David Bowie, David Letterman, Nicole Kidman, and Jim Carrey. The more you learn and understand it, the more you can feel in control.

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When You Fear Being a Burden to Your FriendsThat quiet voice that whispers "they don't really want to hear from you" before you pick up the phone is one of the more stubborn companions of social anxiety.…
How to prepare open-ended questions that keep conversations flowingMany people who experience social anxiety find that conversations stall shortly after the greeting. The brain searches for something safe to say, settles on a…
Why you might fear success in social situations, not just failureMost people associate social anxiety with the dread of being judged, embarrassed or rejected. If you stumble over your words in a meeting or freeze during a…
How to Feel More Confident on Video Calls When You're AnxiousThe ping of an incoming Teams or Zoom meeting can set off a familiar flutter in your chest, even when you know the people on the other end. Across Australia,…
What to do when you feel like you have nothing interesting to sayThe familiar dread arrives just as the conversation begins. Your mind goes blank, your mouth feels dry, and you become convinced that anything you say will…
Reframing rejection as a learning experience, not a personal failureImagine sending a message to a Sydney-based running club asking to join their weekend training session, only to be told the group is full. For many Australians…
Why a new social activity alone can trigger anxietySeeing an interesting pottery class, a book club meeting, or a hiking group pop up in your feed can stir a mix of curiosity and dread. The idea sounds…
Putting the Phone Down When You're With Other PeopleFew habits feel as automatic as slipping a hand into a pocket when a conversation hits a quiet patch. At a Brisbane birthday barbecue or a Friday arvo…
Feeling Left Out A Calm Path Forward in AustraliaThat hollow feeling when friends cancel plans, a group chat keeps buzzing without you, or your coworkers head to lunch without inviting you can settle in the…
How To Practise Spontaneity When You Usually OverplanPlanning can make social situations feel safer. You may rehearse what to say, check travel times repeatedly, imagine every possible awkward moment, or prepare…

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